Emotional Quotient??

I
am reading in some flyers. We can say that people have emotional quotient, if the person is having an emotional stability. People who have a good emotion can understand other people better and make a wise decision. A good emotion like this is related with how people can make an application of what they learn about happiness, love and interaction with people. They are more understand about the meaning of life and responsible to every aspect in their life, like work, family, relation, and other.

Daniel Coleman said that to be an effective leader, emotional quotient is more important than IQ. To be success, people can not only think about themselves, but they have to understand about other people, they can motivate, being an excellent communicator. Because you are not success by yourself. People is not live alone, success can not be achieve by a selfish person, not wise person.

I said that it is not easy to have emotional quotient. Especially if we saw people with their problem which we never have it. I often hear that they can be easily said.. ah... only like this... only like that... Like my mother said, we are always see other people problem easy, until we have same problem like them. Then we know that the problem is not as easy we saw.

So, is any of you have an emotional quotient? I would like to learn more. I wish every people in this world have a high emotional quotient.